DogLovesYou

A training and lifestyle method

Your dog loves you the way you love your dog.

DogLovesYou is a method for building a bond where you, by yourself, are a reward to your dog. Not the food in your hand. You.

Philosophy

Why this method exists and what we mean by love.

Principles

Three rules to follow in daily life.

Framework

Goal, measurement, principles, and method — how the parts fit together.

10-Stage Test

Ten observations. Take it once a month to see where you are.

Method

Six daily activities, with steps you can practice.

Glossary

Short definitions for the terms used on this site.

The question

Do you love your dog? Most people say yes.

Does your dog love you?

When something hard happens, does the dog turn to you? Before a new behavior, does the dog ask you? Is your praise worth more than a treat from a stranger?

If not, the dog may be following the food, the walks, and the play — not you. We want a different relationship.

Continue to the philosophy →

How to use this site

  1. Read the philosophy and the three principles.
  2. Take the 10-stage test. Note your stage.
  3. Pick the lowest stage you have not reached. Read the matching method page.
  4. Practice for one month. Take the test again.